Healing

Betrayal

betrayal
Betrayal. This has been the theme for last week and coming into this week of Nov 21st, 2016. The energy of betrayal rose up last week after 11/11 and just before the Supermoon on Monday night. This is what we are healing on a mass consciousness level for us as a collective right now. These feelings and patterns of hurt and betrayal are coming up to heal through interaction with others, or its come up in your awareness and consciousness to let go of.
Whether its something new that happened that triggered old feelings, or whether its being brought to light because the truth of a situation is being shown to you and you feel betrayed, the best thing you can do is forgive. Forgive yourself. Forgive the other person. Forgive Source/God/Goddess/Universe. This sets everyone free and the energy can move up and out from your life and no longer be a recurrent theme.
We are shifting this as whole. So its not come up to thrust that knife in you again or for you to get stuck in the feelings, but its here for you to rise up and release a very old stuck energy that has been with you for eons, lifetime after lifetime. Release, let go. Forgive. When you are free of this, you have your power back, your soul back, and you can see things from clear eyes. It is then you can ask, what do you want to create in your life? What do you want to settle for and not settle for? How do you want to move forward? With clear eyes you can feel powerful as you make your choices. Feel the freedom that comes with these intense healings of mass consciousness because it also contains all the correct ingredients for a speedy recovery of things that have plauged us for thousands of years.
 
Love & Blessings,
Vanessa

Being Intuitive

Being intuitive requires the deepest surrender. You lean back into the void, into the place between worlds and words. Ecstasy and bliss arises, flooding through your being and you know there is only Oneness in Eternity.

Being intuitive requires the deepest courage. To leave that behind and come back to the here and now and experience what is separation. To put words to what you knew and felt, to make the unconscious -conscious.

Being intuitive requires love. To know more than you can ever be able to explain.

Being intuitive requires trust. To trust your words are misunderstood and resisted. And to be okay still. That’s all part of the plan.

Much Love,

Vanessa

A leap of faith…

How do you feel when someone tells you to just have faith? Or when you are guided to “take a leap of faith”? Is it scary? I used to think of faith as blind faith. It was as if I was being asked to just believe, even though I couldn’t see it, and to leap without regard for what may happen. So most of the time I would leap, then I’d step into this energy of hopefulness combined with trying to stay calm and open as I wait for it to happen. Well now I know that was completely working against me! This often left me in a state of perpetual waiting for something to happen.

Faith is actually KNOWING. It’s a true and strong belief in yourself, the outcome, or the universe/God/Spirit. It’s that feeling when you know you can definitely do this no matter what! You feel aligned and motivated and have this strong knowing that nothing is going to stop you. It can also be that feeling of just being able to let go completely and know things will work out because something bigger has it all in check. You’ll feel great about just letting go and not allowing any worry to creep up. If a feeling did creep up you wouldn’t ignore it, you would feel into it and see if there was something that needed to happen on your end. This is true faith.

Taking a leap of faith comes up in so many readings for people and it can be confusing as to how to do what you are being asked to do. It’s a strong belief in yourself and that things have a way of working out, especially when you release any fears and negative thoughts about things.

Love to you,

~V

True Love

Are you looking for romantic love?

Has the love left the relationship and you feel more like friends?

Do you dream of a deep soulmate connection or a twin flame union with another?

If that’s a yes, I have one more question for you.

Do you believe in true love? Romantic love.

Most people give a resounding yes here. We’ve all been exposed to fairy tales and may even know that special couple that has that type of love we yearn for. So in our heads we know that love exists and maybe we believe that anything is possible. Let’s go deeper with this though. Really feel into your body. Drop down to your stomach or pelvis area, that part of you that has a gut feeling. Let your body answer this. Do you believe true love can happen to you? See how that feels. Did you your body move forward or nod yes, or did you move backwards and shake your head no. Did it feel like your stomach was turning, tight, or you held your breath? Or maybe you felt light and you know with all of your being that yes true love can happen to you.

It’s amazing how many people say yes and then realize its a no. There’s a lot of things we know in our heads to be true, but our bodies tell a different story about what we are creating and why we are not manifesting the things we so desire. If we truly don’t think true love can happen for us then you probably have a lot of frustration with relationships, or maybe you are not getting that romance or passion out of a current relationship.

Look at your beliefs here, then begin to let go of the ones that no longer serves you. Maybe a lot of pain came up in this process for you. Be with those emotions, feel them all until it passes. Clear the way until you get a resounding YES! that true love is possible for you. It is possible for you.

Blessings,

Vanessa xo

10 Signs Your Divine Feminine is Awakening

10 Signs Your Divine Feminine is Awakening

The universe has a way of introducing frustration in the places that need the most healing. It’s to get us to stop and look at what is going on and make some changes in our lives. Many people get frustrated though and don’t know what to do, what changes to introduce or what the universe is actually trying to get them to see.

I almost called this post 10 Signs Your Divine Feminine is Imbalanced, or Un-awakened. However, the truth is that if these things are happening to you, somewhere in your soul your feminine is awake and just calling out for healing and changes so she can can come back into balance with your masculine energy. She’s there and you are aware of her, even if its unconscious, but these are signs she is asking to be unblocked if any of these things are causing you frustration. This post is for those people that feel truly feminine in their nature. Not all females are truly meant to be feminine and men – masculine, but if you are one of the majority that is feminine in nature then this may resonate for you.

  1. You have your life together. You have a good job, your own place, good friends, life is flowing to you, maybe abundantly, but one thing is missing. The soulmate or that passionate relationship you so truly desire.
  2. You’ve been burnt out from work before and fear getting burnt out again so it stops you from creating and moving forward with new projects and ideas.
  3. Your mind goes and goes and goes. It’s hard to make it stop and get restful deep sleep. You ground yourself but it doesn’t seem to help quiet the mind and get to that place where the thoughts cease. Quiet meditation could even feel like a chore.
  4. You constantly feel like you are “out-manning” men. It almost feels too easy. You may also find that they don’t “step-up” and do the manly things that should be obvious to them.
  5. You feel masculine on the inside. On the outside you could be very feminine looking, curvaceous or you do “girly” things, but inside you’ve never felt feminine.
  6. You tend to be the nurturer in your relationships with lovers, friends, family. When we’re nurturing, we are actually in our masculine energy. You may be the giver and doer in relationships. and you feel like you are doing a lot of the work to keep things flowing.
  7. This one addresses both extremes: Your finances are blocked and find that you are in a co-dependent relationship and need more from him whether it be attention or finaces, or you feel like you are the one in charge and doing everything financially or otherwise.
  8. You have a lot of shame or hatred of your body. It’s hard to look in the mirror and see the beauty standing before you. Your eyes go right to the places you want to change or feel you have imperfections.
  9. You isolate yourself or have a fear of being seen or heard or have some social anxiety.
  10. You have trouble opening your heart and seeing the love and beauty of life all around you. This can also manifest as an issue with receiving. You ask for what you want, you even ask for help, but you don’t always receive it or with the ease you’d like. The word surrender feels like defeat, not like surrendering into the divine flow and opening up to receiving and change.

These are all signs your feminine is waking up and wants to be seen, heard and expressed through you. Just the acknowledgement that this is indeed what is happening will start this process of healing, unblocking and further awakening for the feminine.

If you would like a private session to open up the divine feminine, please contact me at www.stairwaytohealing.com. I will also be doing groups and processes in the late spring to early summer to assist in the awakening of the divine feminine including Womb Blessings, Initiations, Carrier of the Sacred Flame, Healing Sexual Wounds, Heart Wounds and Intuition Wounds, and much more!

Blessings,

Vanessa

Today’s Thought

A Healing Mantra:

I love all the loved and unloved parts of myself.

I accept all the accepted and unaccepted parts of myself.

I approve of all unapproved and rejected parts of myself.

Speak this mantra throughout your day and watch your energy shift. The more you feel it as you say it, the better.

This is a simple step to begin self-healing, deepen it, and refocus your energy and thoughts on yourself. These statements are especially helpful if you find that you are outwardly focused on others, or find that you look for love, approval and acceptance outside of yourself. The more you can find it within, the easier your life will flow.

Love to you always,

Vanessa