Manifestation

Fixing Money Blockages Through each Chakra

 

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Where are your money blockages? You may not even realize this is happening or a blockage!

  1. Root chakra: You have just enough money for survival. Your basic needs are being met but you are not enjoying the pleasure that money brings. You have a lot of anxiety and stress about money. You are survival mode with money and have constant stress about not having enough or feel blindsided and anxious when a new expense comes in.
    • Fix: “The planet is abundant. I am abundant. I am safe and secure and abundance is all around me and flows easily through me.”
  2. Sacral chakra: You may have money to splurge a little and enjoy some pleasures or things for your own personal growth.  If money brings up a lot of emotions for you  or if you have trouble manifesting money, you could have a blockage here.
    • Fix: “I feel gratitude for the money that flows to me and from me. I bless it and let it flow in and out. I use my creation energy to create money.”
  3. Power Center: You have to work really hard for your money. It takes pushing, long hours and extra effort to get what you need. You feel like you are chasing money and have a hard time getting paid, finding people for your courses, or you have to track down money owed to you.
    • Fix: “Money flows easily to me. I am a money magnet. I now receive all the money that is owed to me.”
  4. Heart Chakra: You feel like you don’t deserve money or like you have to earn it or work really hard for it. Its difficult for you to just receive or you beat yourself up for not having enough of it when you know you could’ve done better.
    • Fix: “I love money and money loves me. I am grateful and blessed and my money multiplies as soon as I touch it. I am joyful and abundant.”
  5. Throat Chakra: You may find it difficult to talk about money, your prices for your business, asking for the money owed to you or for a raise. Fear, shame or guilt comes up when you need to talk money.
    • Fix: “I am worth it. I am bold and courageous. It is safe and easy for me to ask for what I am worth.”
  6. Third Eye Chakra: Maybe you have a hard time seeing yourself as wealthy, rich or abundant and free. Its hard to imagine or visualize what that would be like for you.
    • Fix: “I see myself as wealthy and wise. I know I am abundant. I feel the freedom that this brings.”
  7. Crown Chakra: You feel money is evil or have negative beliefs against people with wealth or how much they charge and what things cost. You feel like you need approval when it comes to spending or making money and are not yet aligned with money and prosperity being your birthright.
    • Fix: “Money is my birthright. Prosperity is my birthright. I am allowed to create as much money as I’d like.”

There are several ways to clear these blockages in each chakra, but I included a mantra as that tends to be the easiest and quickest way to start the clearing and aligning yourself to the new beliefs. You may want to work with one chakra at a time if you find you have several blocks. For some people they have immediate results with new people, opportunities or ideas showing up in their lives within 24 hours, and others need more time with certain ideas or belief systems. Try it out and let me know what shows up for you!

Love &  Infinite Blessings,

Vanessa

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You may notice for example when you’re frustrated, you keep attracting things and people that frustrate you. It seems endless and you wonder when it’ll ever end. Or when you are treated poorly, do you notice how most others treat you that way, if not in the beginning, then eventually they do? It all comes down to vibration. It can be hard to break out of a vibration especially when you are getting hit with the same things over and over.

That’s why I created these mp3s. Not only to bring you money when you are flowing and open, but to get out of any vibration you are stuck in and create a new frequency in your life that you may not have access to otherwise. Imagine if no matter what was going on you had prosperity flowing in the background. All you’d have to do is relax, open and feel/align/tune-into that frequency and things can change and the cycle will be broken. You will attract prosperous people and situations into your life. The more you let the new vibration in, the more you become it. Once you become it, well – who knows what you can create!

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True Prosperity

When the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for you

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I’ll admit, there were times I thought the Law Of Attraction wasn’t even real. I just couldn’t seem to get it to work. I, of course, watched other people get it to work, almost effortlessly I’ll add. Then there was me, up all night reading books about the LOA, or other books about the secret to the LOA, or books on receiving, or ones on frequency or vibration. I just couldn’t figure out the trick. What were other people doing that I wasn’t doing? I tried everything. I just knew there had to be somewhere I was blocked with receiving since there were a few things I could make happen, but why wasn’t this consistent if this is a law?

If you are like me where you just about gave up on the LOA, you’ll be happy to read this. I’m going to tell you exactly why it doesn’t work for some people and it works for others. There are several reasons that blew my mind when I found out. I’ll tell you one of them today, but stay tuned because I’m divulging everything…

Well let’s start with a short definition of the Law of Attraction. It says that what you focus on is what shows up in your life. Basically your dominant thoughts will manifest. This is why people have pictures of sports cars and vacations on their vision boards. We focus on it, we remind ourselves to feel what it’ll be like to have it, we think about it, we let go and there it is one day.

With this definition out there now, we can logically say that the Law of Attraction is working whether you think about it, or even know about it. It’s there producing your dominant thoughts as things, people, events and situations into your physical reality. You can see why knowing this exists is in your best interest because then you can focus on what you want to show up. Ok so far so good?

“I’m doing that and its not showing up. The opposite of what I want is showing up, or nothing is showing up at all. Help! I’m stuck!” This is what people ask me during sessions or through my written one question readings. I’m wording that a bit nicer. I know they’re frustrated so sometimes they’re a bit more murderous in their tone. (That doesn’t bother me. Like attracts like 😉 Law of Attraction pun totally intended.)

So one of  the super secret reasons you are not getting what you want….You want it so much! If you feel super excited about it, or like you’ve waited so long for it and its FINALLY going to manifest, or it feels too good to be true, or it feels like “OMG my life would just be so fulfilled and perfect if I just had this…” and it feels so great to you and you’re in your head thinking about it, that’s where you are actually pushing that thing away because those are all discordant energies. Its not going to show up.

I’ve seen this with something as small as going to restaurant and everything being above and beyond what you expected. You tell a ton of people then you bring them and they’re like “meh” and the service or something else is off that day.

I’ve also seen with this something as big as “I met my twin flame! We’re going to be together!!”, but then that twin flame pushes them away and it becomes this tense and emotional roller coaster of “How do I get them to like me?”.

Now I’m not saying if you are super excited the law of attraction won’t work. I AM saying though, that if the law of attraction isn’t working then it might be this reason.

So what do we do? We get grounded. We feel the earth beneath our feet. We reconnect with our bodies. We notice we’re having all these intense emotions and the thing we want isn’t showing up. Then we go mind-over-matter. You want to get yourself to a place where you having that thing seems normal, like no big deal. It’s not significant.

Think about the things that you have. You may be grateful for it, but its not over the top. You know its there, its no big deal. The key here is to not make anything or anyone more important or more special or more significant than you. And there it. Secret #1 laid out for you.

Stay tuned for the rest!!

Kisses,

Vanessa

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True Love

Are you looking for romantic love?

Has the love left the relationship and you feel more like friends?

Do you dream of a deep soulmate connection or a twin flame union with another?

If that’s a yes, I have one more question for you.

Do you believe in true love? Romantic love.

Most people give a resounding yes here. We’ve all been exposed to fairy tales and may even know that special couple that has that type of love we yearn for. So in our heads we know that love exists and maybe we believe that anything is possible. Let’s go deeper with this though. Really feel into your body. Drop down to your stomach or pelvis area, that part of you that has a gut feeling. Let your body answer this. Do you believe true love can happen to you? See how that feels. Did you your body move forward or nod yes, or did you move backwards and shake your head no. Did it feel like your stomach was turning, tight, or you held your breath? Or maybe you felt light and you know with all of your being that yes true love can happen to you.

It’s amazing how many people say yes and then realize its a no. There’s a lot of things we know in our heads to be true, but our bodies tell a different story about what we are creating and why we are not manifesting the things we so desire. If we truly don’t think true love can happen for us then you probably have a lot of frustration with relationships, or maybe you are not getting that romance or passion out of a current relationship.

Look at your beliefs here, then begin to let go of the ones that no longer serves you. Maybe a lot of pain came up in this process for you. Be with those emotions, feel them all until it passes. Clear the way until you get a resounding YES! that true love is possible for you. It is possible for you.

Blessings,

Vanessa xo

Energy Update

The energy last night and today have been pretty intense. As I have been more embodied and in-tune with myself some of these shifts in energy float right by me almost as if I’ve been cocooned from the light show raging outside, that is until I decided to poke my head out and see what was going on in  the ethers. A storm was raging last night. What did I see? The old matrix reality is being disassembled, the grid lines are disappearing and the 3D polarized reality being dismantled and transmuted. What does this mean and what does this feel like for us?

Friendships are ending, even long-term ones, you may feel easily annoyed and irritated, negativity emerges right in the midst of you feeling high vibrational and elated, you may feel like some people are up to their old tricks, feeling dreamy and spacey or disembodied to a certain extent, and the one that comes along with usually every event in the ethers – sleepiness, lethargy, and emotional tiredness. Usually when there are huge shifts like this, you may become aware of psychic attacks, energy interference, blocks, or feeling like you’re in a bubble where no one can see you, which can protect you but then can block your receiving. What do we do?

The time we are in now calls for letting go. We tend to want to jump right into “cleansing negative energies” – mode, however, letting go, surrendering and receiving change are super critical right now.  The changes you have been asking for are coming. It’s when we truly let go that the forces can come and sweep  through and change our lives, creating the change we are asking for. Included in letting go is the innate belief that all is working out as you’ve asked and in your best interest. The universe is conspiring in your favor, even though it may not feel like it.

So this isn’t “do nothing”. This is allowing change, detaching from everything and leaning back in the body, and taking a step back mentally allowing everything to stir and move. Float along knowing ALL of this is in your best interest. Everything is aligning for you, for your new future. Trust. Let go.

Peace to you,

~Vanessa

The #1 Reason Manifestation Techniques Don’t Work

My guides keep reminding me of this precious detail every so often. We tend to get lost in our race to make things happen, to get what we want, to push toward our goals, and to clear the blockages in the way, energetic or otherwise. We focus on the minute details, we clear and clear and clear the energy and give it our all. We stay positive, focused, happy and do everything we learned to do about manifesting our dreams, even letting go of them so the universe can take care of it and make things happen. Okay, not all of us, but if you’re nodding your head to this you know the pain of striving towards what you want every single day, sometimes working at it all day every day and seeing only minor shifts – if that. Sometimes we break down in frustration or seek more help, or find more blocks to clear, but it feels like an endless cycle with certain things. So what’s going on?

Ask and You Shall Receive. That really is all it is. Did you ever ask for something, let it go and then see it show it up? Sometimes you hardly asked for it at all, it was just a passing thought in your mind – and there it was knocking at your door or coming to you asking you if you were interested in what they have to offer. So what is the difference here? Why does certain things show up so easily and other things you feel may never change?

Many books will tell you the problem is about the receiving. You have asked for it, but you are not open to receive it. You’re not a good receiver. You have to let go and just receive. But, I’ll tell you something different, a secret of sorts.

Asking is receiving.

When you ask for something and you are clear as to what you want, but you are not hung up on the need of it thinking it will change your life, or you’ll finally be set free, it is free to come to you. If there is nothing really attached to the asking, but just the desire, it will show up. If there is a lot riding on the outcome of that thing showing up, or you just want it oh so badly, it won’t show up so easily.

Here’s why. You don’t really want it. It’s pretty simple, if you really wanted it, you would have it already. I don’t mean “want” as in lack, like wanting something so badly that it hurts, or makes you sad/miserable/or depressed in any way. I mean desiring it, from a calm relaxed place. A place where you know you can have it. Think of it like this, you have three meals in the refrigerator and someone asks you which one you want. You are coming from a place of having, or a calm place of knowing, versus, the frustrated feeling of lacking and being without that comes up when you think of thing you want so much that you have been working so hard to get all these years.

I have a friend that keeps asking me when she’ll find a job, or what she has to do to get that perfect job. She gets other jobs, minimum wage ones that she doesn’t like to do. She wants a certain type of job. When I tested her “Truth, do you really want a job?” It was a no. You can try this at home. What is that you have been striving for all these years? Truth, do you really desire it? If you do muscle testing you can test to see what you get here. If not, you can feel deep down into your body, not in your head as your head will tell you “yes you do want it of course duh!”. What does your body say? This may not always be the answer, but so many times it goes back to something as simple as this. Do you really want this thing or not? Maybe you are waiting for more perfect conditions to show up. Like losing weight first, then having that relationship. Or maybe feeling like you need to fix something about yourself first before you get out there and get that job. When we looked at this further, my friend felt like she wasn’t good enough for a better job, so deep down she didn’t want the job yet because she felt it was above her.

So what do you do about this? Well, you can look at where you are giving mixed signals to the universe. I advised my friend to focus on both sides of the coin for faster results, what is blocking you from wanting it and is what you want best suited for you right now? One thing was working on her self-esteem and confidence and trust in herself to build up her value, and the other side of this was to sit with the idea of what she thought she wanted. Why did she want this type of job? What did she think it would give her? Did she indeed want this or just the status of the job so she could feel a certain way? Would she be better suited to something else, or was she ready to put her fears aside step into something bigger? She is currently sorting through all of this, but I know when she stops giving mixed signals to the universe and puts out one message clearly – I know she will get what she truly wants.

Kisses,

~V

The Red Tent Revival!

I have a secret to share…

It’s a secret that will turn you on, light you up, and rock your world in all kinds of ways…

It’s a secret that harkens back to more than 5,000 years ago when the feminine was worshiped, respected and celebrated…

It’s a secret that will have you reclaiming your feminine power, reviving your wisdom, and returning to your truth as a woman…

Ready for it?!

You’ll find it here in this video.

I attended this last year and it was absolutely amazing. I learned tons of new stuff that I didn’t even know was out there and it helped me to ground into my femininity more. This is why I’ve decided to take part in supporting this event this year. I hope you check it out. 🙂

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Kristin Sweeting Morelli, is the red hot woman who is pioneering this movement. She seriously likes to shake things up and break down barriers for women around the world…

And so, she has put together an EPIC (and totally free) 5-day online festival where we’ll revive EVERYTHING it means to be a woman.

It’s called the Red Tent Revival… and it’s happening soon.

I’ve gotten a sneak peek and it’s a WOW! I’ve never seen or heard of anything like it. It’s already changing my life and the lives of tens of thousands of other women in 167 countries and counting…

Inside the Red Tent, you’ll get to learn from an extraordinary group of contributors too… television stars, best-selling authors, world-famous dancers, MDs, and PhDs who will be sharing their wisdom and having us move our bodies. Mmm… so good!

Want to come?! (You can take part from the comfort of your living room!)

Join the Red Tent Revival here.

Kisses,
V

Why Visualization Doesn’t Work

Well, maybe doesn’t work is a little harsh. Why is visualization hit or miss at best? First a disclaimer: If it works for you, read no further – you are doing it in a way that works for you – feel free to email me and let me know! Okay! I’m not talking about the creative visualization we all do when we put together outfits in our minds, or figure out how to work on a project, or even when we visualize how our day is going to go. These are really task oriented and is normal and natural to visualize. What I’m talking about here is the visualization to manifest something – whether it be more money, a car, a lover, a home, etc.

A friend of mine (no its not me!) has been visualizing her future husband coming  to her for at least 7 years, perhaps more, but these are  the painful, lonely, and sometimes empowering years of single life that I can attest to. Let’s call her “Gloria” so she doesn’t kill me right after this is posted.  Lovely Gloria has been doing everything right, by the book. Visualize before bed and when you wake up, that’s when you are already in a meditative state. See him coming to you. Write down what you want in a man. Be specific, but not too specific – ever heard that one before? LOL Think about him all the time. Make space in your closet and bathroom. Wear gorgeous underwear in case you meet him on the street. Um, this last one might be from a “different” book I read. Anyway, she is doing all these things and reading the countless books to back this up. Yet, nothing, nada. She finally asked me a question one day, “Vanessa, what am I doing wrong?”. See, even though we knew each other she was really busy being hopeful and following the guidance and being virtuous and full of patience and trying to stay positive. Sound familiar?

When I began to really look at her situation, I could see each time she went in to visualize she was being an energy of “hopeful” and “eeek…maybe one day!” and “staying positive”. She was being all the wrong energies. Those are all energies of lacking. So each time she went in to visualize it was a lacking energy, and that is what she kept reaffirming. You’ve probably heard that you need to be the energy of “already having it”. So if you are already doing that, you are one step up!

Where a lot of people really get stuck with all of this though is the visualization part. See, the other twist here was she was visualizing specific scenarios happening – when that is not how this guy is going to come into her life.  What is going to work a lot better here is to “FEEL” how you will feel when this person is in your life. This feeling makes the energy more solid and then hands it off to the universe to fulfill for you, and then you can take the next steps in the physical world – such as going out more, using a dating site, etc. You are also being a strong enough vibration to attract this person, especially if you practice feeling like this more often than not. You don’t want to be worried about the how, its more about how you feel. The universe takes care of the how.

See, my friend Gloria was using more imagination and fantasy of how her partner will be and what that would be like – so it was keeping it in the energetic realm. When she brings down the feeling of actually having him it becomes more solid and real.

The other key here is that things never show up as you expect them to. They never usually look like what you had pictured in your mind. WHY? Well – if you could picture how something will show up or what they look like then you are using your psychic senses and having a psychic vision. Otherwise, you are basing it off of what you already know, which is an image of lacking that thing that you so desire. So unless its a psychic vision, the image is coming from a fantasy or an energy of lack. Neither of those two are going to help you create what you want.

So what to do? Well, go into what you want to feel like. Then if an image comes, yay! If not, continue with the feeling until its a normal part of your life. You will be surprised how the universe intends to fulfill these feelings/vibrations you are putting out there.

That’s it for now!

Kisses,
V

 

 

Moving Mountains with Every Muscle

Do you sometimes trip over things that you didn’t see was there?

Do you forget what you were going to do just as you go to do it?

Do you go over things in your mind – over and over on a loop?

Do you have trouble relaxing your mind and falling asleep at night?

Are there parts of your body that you haven’t felt in a long, long time?

Do you feel light and airy and daydream a lot?

Do things seem really great in your mind then suddenly just fizzle away?

If so, you might be living in your head, or worse, outer space – that space right in front of and just above your head.

Living in our head is a great way to plan things out, think up new ideas, visualize, and so on, but do you wish you had more presence and that people heard, saw and acknowledged you more? Do you wish to have more confidence? Its time to get more embodied!  There’s a time and a place for the mind, then there’s a time and a place for the body. Unfortunately most people spend 90% in the head and 10% embodied.  The head space will only get you so far, but we need to be embodied to have things physically manifest in our lives, to be taken seriously and noticed, and to create that dream life down here on Earth!

This blog is full of tips on embodiment since a lot of people who are more spiritually oriented tend to live in the head or above and have a hard time getting things to work the way they want to. So here’s your next tip:

To get embodied quickly – stand up – walk slowly around the room using every muscle in your body. Start from your feet, feel all those muscles, then your legs, move and flex all those muscles. Continue to walk around the room and work your way up to your facial muscles. You will be so focused on your body it instantly snaps you out of your head.

Now from this place you can take your action and see if that feels different to you. Make your phone calls, go to bed, go workout, go for a walk, even have a conversation. Notice what and how this feels different for you and if things are easier and less stressful over time as you spend more time in the body.

Kisses,
~V

Head vs. Heart – Moving Beyond the Eternal Struggle for Power

Whether it be after a first date with someone you really like, or a job interview, or some type of lead that you have been asking for and waiting for – why do seemingly wonderful opportunities just keep fizzling away for you, or not even show up?

Your logical mind says it’ll never happen. It won’t work! It may even give you an entire list of reasons why it won’t work. It’ll show you the scenario in your head over and over again. Your emotions want you to feel that ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN! Anything is possible! You want to get really excited, you want to start planning for the future. You may even feel like your time has come, but you hold back – because the mind is warning you and you don’t want to get carried away. So which one do you follow?

Whose right?

Both and none actually! Its your next step that makes all the difference!

  • Listen to your mind, acknowledge it makes a valid points. See the different scenarios it’ll play out for you. Let it run wild, for a limited amount of time. Then say enough, and let that go. The mind has important messages to share, even if it seems to always give you the worst case scenario. It might be trying to protect you from something similar that has happened in the past, or it may be giving you an awareness of the future and how this might turn out.

Many people manifest opportunities or possibilities, but they never seem to work out. The opportunities fizzle away. They seem to be unable to move past a certain point with things. It seems like the dream job is showing up, or the dream partner is showing up, but then it all just disappears as fast it came. So many people ask me WHY? What are they doing wrong? Why won’t the universe deliver what they have asked for? They have waited forever!

Having been there, done that a million + times, I now have an answer. The tendency is to stop after the first point, for many people. This is where we stop our energy and wait for the next thing to happen. However, the key is to keep moving. There is an energy that created all of this to begin with. If you stop there you have now stopped the energy from moving and it’ll feel like you are going back to the starting point over and over.

Let’s move on to the next point and keep that energy flowing. Our emotions are our bridge to the body.

  • Feel all those emotions. Let them run wild, even if its a total contraction to what your mind just showed you. Feel the giddiness and the excitement from your date, even though the mind showed you that he might not call you back. Feel the excitement of your interview, the nerves, the worry, even if your mind is saying its ok, you did fine. It’s key to feel all of your emotions, no matter what they are.

This is a hard one for many people because they feel like if they “give in” to the emotions they are going to get invested, then will be really disappointed when it doesn’t work out and feel as though they should have listened to their head and stopped there. Now I’m not telling you it will work out, I’m saying feel it anyway. If this one opportunity doesn’t work out – you would have moved the energy ahead enough for something else to come along that you can go further with.

Emotions are vital to our well-being. If we just listen to our head, then we are ignoring the body and repressing emotions. We are making our body invalid and setting ourselves up for anything from anxiety (at seemingly random times) to disease. So how do we get out of those emotions – they seem like they can run forever. For example if you are anxious and let yourself feel it, it can seem like you are anxious all day or for days! Let’s move on to the next points.

  • Get in tune with your body. Center yourself. Allow your emotions from an observer perspective. Know that you are going to allow and watch the emotions without any attachment or judgement. Know that you are watching it, being there for yourself – and of course what you observe from this perspective tends to disappear when its been fully expressed. This is where we can just observe something and melt away blocks, blocks that say – “I’m afraid to try”, “I’m afraid to fail”, and so on. So after a period of time you may feel most of those emotions dissipating.

And finally…

  • Do some form of conscious movement. It’s better to get a feel for what your body wants to do – whether it be tai chi or a run, dancing, cleaning the house, etc. However, if you are bit out of tune with your body due to repressing emotions in the past, you may not get a sense of what would be most beneficial. At this point, any movement is good. Through the conscious movement you are moving the emotions out of your body. You should start to feel a sense of peace and like you are ready for the next step, which should show up in your reality naturally at this point.

This is where the energy has moved far enough for the universe to bring you the next thing. The next thing that takes you further, if not all the way to what you desire. This is how we are meant to naturally move through life.

Loving your mind, body and soul,

~V